Haven't had sex in 5yrs

Ok, so I haven't had sex in 5yrs and then some.

I was married and my husband left us.

I didn't want to talk to anyone because I felt insecure, fat and my acne is bad.

I am trying to take care of myself this year more and get my body ready.

My mind feels a lot better now.

I have new friends who are trying to hype me about getting together with this SUPER CUTE/NICEST GUY.

I have pigmentation down there and my 👄👇 there are chubby and a bit lose. I feel horrible.

Honestly idk how to go about it.

Help with recommendations please.

He is super nice. I really want to enjoy the experience and for him to enjoy himself too.