Sex after baby? Non existent

I am desperate 😫

6 months postpartum and we only had sex once. Today we finally wanted to do it (after dealing with sleep regression from the start of fourth month and he will be 6months next week) he wakes up, is now wide awake and there goes my time with my husband. Time we desperately need.

How do you do it? He works long hours during the week so only the weekend is working for us right now but apparently baby also knows that 😂

If we get interrupted my husband can’t get ti up the second time and after giving birth I don’t get wet so fast, it takes some time.

Some advice please? Because of no time for ourselves we are snapping at each other, fighting and we just haven’t really even looked at each other and it is really bothering me and him.

The only person close to use are my parents and I don’t truancy my mom with my baby because of her not respecting our rules. So leaving the baby is not an option.

I just want some of the intimacy with my husband back. He is right there next to me but I miss him 😕

We cosleept and we put baby boy in a bassinet finally but the fight is not over yet. How long did it take for your baby to learn to sleep alone?