In Law Issues 😳

So I’m having my baby any day now and me & my husband have talked about what we want as far as visitors & our alone time with baby in the beginning.

One big issue.. his mother. She is demanding to come see the baby immediately once we get home & she doesn’t really respect that we don’t want visitors immediately once we get home. (I’m going to BF, and have to adjust. FT mom here). She won’t even include me in conversations with my husband about OUR baby. So I feel like she’s going behind my back when I’m the mother of the child. It’s just crazy!! she’s one of those people that aren’t used to having people tell her no.. this woman has hardly even checked on my husband and I (as well as his other family, they’re just not very considerate) during this pregnancy but now it seems like she is wants to show up now that it’s baby time.. & she’s one of those people that overstay their welcome too. I’ve witnessed her do this to her other children when they have had kids as well. It’s just not good for me or my husband, we are becoming parents and want to enjoy this new life experience without negativity just because someone isn’t getting their way with us.

*****Anyway, How would you handle this? And has anyone else ever had a difficult in law?

Side note: I choose to love/care about my MIL.. she’s just a difficult person and strong personality. I can only handle so much of her at once though & she makes it hard to have a good relationship with her.. I’ve tried really hard to bond with her but she only seems interested in the grandchild at this point.