2yo starting school

My toddler has autism and has been accepted into this school in Manhattan for toddlers with special needs. Her dad thinks it’s not a good idea bc she can’t talk at the moment and only we know how to deal with her. He worries if she’s constipated and trying to poop they won’t notice the signs, and just worry how they will look after her. He also mention covid. On the other handddd, although I feel like his complaints are valid, it’s a good idea she goes because she need to see other ppl, new environment instead of me all day. She’s a breastfeeding baby and I’m a SAHM. This new routine would be good for the both of us and it’s only for 4hrs everyday. I would get a break which is well needed, and she would be working on improving her skills. Idk what to do though since we have different opinions.