2 minute pumper

what do i do if he can only last 2 minutes. sometimes 1. i know it’s not me it’s him. cause if it was me. after a while he’ll start lasting longer as he gets used to me. it’s bad. i feel like sex just isn’t enjoyable at all. he used to finger me and kiss me before hand. now he doesn’t even do that. he’s only ate me out once in the 4 months we been together. like it literally hurts when he just shoves it in without us warming up to it at all. and i’m tired of it cause i’ve already had this conversation with him before. i even have a vibrator that i told him he can use on me. he only uses it on me when i ask.

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