I found out last week that my brother and sister-in-law are expecting (😒).  She is only a few weeks along.  Her and my brother frustrate me to no end.  The live 3-4 hours away (because they moved to live right down the road from her parents) and they rarely ever come visit us. The last time I saw them was at my wedding, a YEAR AND A HALF AGO.  My 2 year old nephew cried when my sister-in-law handed him to me at my wedding because he had no freaking clue who I was.. Proves how little they visit.  Way more has happened with them beyond the lack of visiting, but I won't go into everything.