I'm feeling totally numb right. I've been in the pill for more than 10 years, never wanted kids and now I'm unexpectedly pregnant for the first time.

How did some of ya'll react? Did you wait to tell your friends and family? What about single mom's did you tell the father?

I'm just not what to do... I just found out today!

UPDATE: I told the father because it was the right thing to do. He told me to have an abortion. I yelled and screamed at him and stormed out telling him my attorney would get the custody papers ready and he wouldn't be asked for a cent of child support. He didn't stop me, didn't call or text knowing I'd left crying.... I've been crying a lot since I found out about this baby. I'm having a lot of cramps and aching in mid section all last night and this morning. Plus a nightmare woke me after I'd finally gotten to sleep. Only slept 5 hours.