I came here to recieve a few words of comfort. :/ I broke up with my boyfriend of almost four years because he was a drunk. He would drink almost every night. He was no longer emotionally involved with me. We would barely have sex. We after like friends and our entire relationship fell apart. We lived together, so I left him and moved in with my mom. I don't know if he was just angry that I hurt him, but he ended up telling me he liked someone else when we were together, and that he only drank a lot because he had to see my face, and that he doesn't think he ever loved me. This girl he has "always wanted" is some random girl he dated for three weeks before he met me. He text me tonight, belligerently drunk, and told me to come get my shit. Then called and I heard a bunch of people screaming at me. So I went over to his apartment and brought my girl friend, and my furniture was trashed,  being thrown out of the apartment. He was drunk and so was everyone else, and it looked like they were on drugs. This girl he was talking about that he "always wanted" was moved in already. We've been broken up for a month. She was using my things, sitting all over MY furniture, sleeping in MY bed and probably having sex with him in it, too. Then, she grabbed him and started hugging and kissing on him right in front of me. I got my crap, called the police over them throwing my things (I am still on that lease), and then left. I am so upset right now and broken. How can anyone be this spiteful?