. I like someone, but I'm pretty sure they're vanilla. I'm a little and one time in casual conversation with friends he said that it's weird. Maybe he'd feel different once he knew I was and was exposed to it that way? A lot of people say it's weird at first. But Im like 90% sure he's vanilla..but says he's willing to try anything.

But then again this is all just me hoping this turns into something.

......

Apart of me is like "nah I can't be with someone who's nilla or a noob, it's so much work teaching someone, and If they're not into bdsm at all I don't think it could work for me, it's a necessity at this point."

How do you guys handle falling for someone whos nilla?