Is it okay to be 30 with no friends?

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Ill start by saying that I have always kind of been a loner.  I have had many friends in my life, aka acquaintances. I find girls I like and we hang for months then we just stop. Theres never been any real bond between us. 
Im 30. I work full time. I have my own house. I am in a relationship. I look good. I take care of my body. Other women compliment me nearly every time I am in public. Whether it be my hair, my body, telling me that I am beautiful.  So as far as looks go- ive got that down. Its just making me question my personality. 
I am easy going. Kinda of quiet. I have a dog. I like to read. I like coffee and cooking. I mean, I would hang out with me.
I had friends when I got with my boyfriend, 3 years ago. Ever since getting with him, he has just secluded me in a way to where I literally have nobody.
I try to reach out to my old friends, and they have no interest on responding to me.
Is it okay to be 30 with no friends? I feel so lonely at times. I go and get iced coffee by myself. I go to parks by myself. I shop by myself. I wish I had another lady to do things with. To confide in.

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First of all, friendship has nothijgnto do with looks - it irked me to read that. I wouldn't say it's normal but yes it's okay. 
Friendship can be difficult, we all growup, start working, having kids and have no times for friends but I've always made the effort to reach out to them and ensure we make time for each other. If those friends you're reaching out to aren't responding, they weren't resk.friends.

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Girl. I’m literally the same way and same age. The only difference is that I am pregnant with my first baby lol. But even before I became pregnant I didn’t have friends either, my boyfriend is literally my best friend but sometimes I wish I was able to do girl things with a friend like shopping, going out for coffee etc.

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Same thing but luckily have my 2 kids. Find local females on fb... like the city you live in and an interest. Chicago wives. Chicago foodies, chicago readers... something along those lines. :)

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I find it very odd that people are jumping over the part where you say your boyfriend secludes you from your friends? That’s not normal…it’s one thing if you don’t have friends out of preference and quite another for an SO to control that part of your life. I’d start with that issue first and then branch out to old friends/acquaintances, people at work, people who share your hobbies (you can meet them in local Facebook groups or Meetup)

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My husband is my best friend. The more older people get the more life get in the way of keeping in touch with people. If the people you have contacted don’t respond back to you then I would say they weren’t true friends to begin with. I’ve lost touch with people along the way but I also think it should be reciprocated back also. They could also contact you too.

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I’m 27 and I don’t have friends. I have a few acquaintances that I speak to once in awhile but I wouldn’t consider them close BFFs. As I’ve gotten older I’ve come to appreciate my own company. People have different priorities and lead different lives so it’s normal to drift away from people that you may have once been close with.