I just got out of a relationship that was 11 months..I noticed that I never saved money while dating this person, which personally is not ideal. I'm not saying the money wasnt well spent. BUT does it ever agitate you to be in that kind of situation? I even spent all of my tax return on kayaks, which normally I would've saved 70-80% of.

..Where you know you're not saving because you're out spending -more than likely- unnecessary money because of a situation?...Or is that just my frugal ass?

.......I didn't have much growing up so to finally have my own I am protective over and like to see it prosper.