When do you decide you’re out for this cycle?

It’s my first month TTC and I am 11dpo and I think it’s finally time to call it quits on taking tests. I’ve taken 3 the past few day with fmu two of which looked like faint positives but the one today is a clear negative. Should I just move on and accept I’m out for this cycle? How do you make yourself feel better about having to TTC again next month?

I think I might be discouraging myself cus my mother liked to throw it in my face that the second baby she was TTC (me) was conceived during the first month trying.