Boyfriend jacks off next to me

My bf jacks off almost every morning next to me. Even if we have sex the night before. he will still wake up and just do it. It just feels weird when he does it almost every morning. Last night we had sex for almost 2-3 hours. Last week we had sex almost everyday.

I told him don’t jack off to me next time he took it as a joke and said “maybe you should help me out then “ and “Why would you just let me jack off alone when your right there.”

And sometimes when we have sex ladies roughly like that back to back it’ll bother our lady parts. so I try to give my vagina a break. He mentioned I don’t get as wet anymore. I don’t because to me sex isn’t becoming fun anymore now it’s like a chore to me.

I wanna be able to do intimacy without sex sometimes.

Has anyone every went through this. We been together for a year but we just moved in with each other 2 months ago.