We were watching a TV show and a character was pregnant and deciding if she wanted an abortion.

I am minding my business and he says "if I got you pregnant would you abort?" And I said "do what? Well... I have the IUD. I would only abort if it was an extrauterine pregnancy and a threat to my life." He said "why would you have that?" And I said "it's common with the IUD. I could get pregnant and the baby would be in my Fallopian tube and it would rupture and I would bleed out and die."

And he said "oh... oh crap." And I said "but if there happened to be a healthy baby in my uterus, there's nothing you could do to get me to abort." And he smiled and said "god that would be awesome."

And I sat there and thought.. the only reason I have this IUD is because I'm waiting on him. I have had baby fever so bad i want to rip my eyes out..For YEARS. I will literally schedule an IUD removal next week I will rip that mf thing out so fast oh my GOD. Don't tell me that would be "awesome." Don't turn tomato red and blush and smile to your ears like that. Oh my god.

He fell asleep after that conversation and I'm literally going to ask him for a baby tomorrow.

Guys he's at work it's going to be a dinner conversation y'all are scary lol

I got SCARED. Can y'all help me? I got the pressure from y'all so y'all have to help me. I was about to ask him but then i took a deep breath to ask and I inhaled my chicken and he was like "oh my god! Are you okay?" And I was like "YEAH YEAH IM OKAY." And I just sat there with huge eyes lmfao

I'm just scared he'll say no! Give me some time y'all lol

Also why debate abortion in the comments. There is no pregnancy, there's just an IUD right now. The chance of me becoming pregnant on the IUD is 1%

It is one of the most effective birth controls in the world. There is no point in arguing over something that has a very extremely slim chance of even happening. I have had the IUD for years now. No pregnancy has occurred. IF, I happened to be someone who the IUD failed, I would do what it took in order to survive. But is that currently happening? No. It's purely hypothetical.

Update: I rolled around in bed tossing and turning and I looked at him like "damn" and he giggled and said "what have you been up to?" And I said "DO YOU WANT A BABY?" And he flipped the covers off of him like a crazy person and take "TAKE YOUR CLOTHES OFF" and i started busting out laughing hysterically. Obviously the IUD will have to be removed.

No, he didn't run away screaming he got naked so HA. ☺️☺️

And here's a little more of an update. He was in the room when I called to schedule an IUD removal and he was smiling to himself and has been smiling non stop, he's on cloud 9. He keeps telling me "I love you so much." And keeps kissing me all over my face and just smiling to his ears, almost skipping around and he's just.. so happy

I am not pregnant yet. I haven't even had my appointment I still have my IUD, it hasn't even been removed yet LOL

I am well aware it can take 6months to a year. My body has to adjust to not being on BC and everything

Come back a year from now and ask about babies? Give or take