Help what do i do!!!

My fiancé communication is terrible and im frustrated with it because he would come home and ask him "how was ur day babe" he would say "it was ok" so i would think everything is fine and ill go about our night then i would say some like " omg i want longer weave" something innocent then he would start flipping out on me like totally going off then tell me "im tired of ur bs" and i would ask wat the hell is wrong then at that moment he decides to tell me basically he had a bad day like what do i do because ive asked for him to come in and tell me immediately what happened so we can solve it because it fucks up our night everytimhe does that and it hurts my feelings what should i do ladies? pleese help!!!!!!!