How much do your husband help with newborn? Just feeling unrecognized for how much I'm doing. My husband does one feed in the night then sleeps in the rest of the morning and afternoon. I'm busy with the baby pretty much the rest of the time. He'll do a feed during evening and some diaper changes and he's saying he's doing more than me. It's not a competition but I wish he held her more. He's always setting her down. I hold the baby and feed and change. She wants to be held not just basic needs met. Idk I feel sad. He is off work so work is no excuse right now. His mom says this is just how guys are.