I really don't understand my inlaws when we were pregnant with our first child we decided to wait a few months before telling anyone just to b safe. My inlaws accidentally found out and instead of saying anything they didn't speak to us for 6 months. We just found out I'm pregnant with our second child and we decided to tell them right away to avoid upsetting them and all they had to say was congratulations and then changed the subject like it wasn't a big deal at all. I'm I right in being upset over this. I just feel bad for my husband can't believe his family acts like this.