Divorce/abuse/affair

So , my cousin and myself married brothers . I married the brother that was 13 yrs older than me i just turned 18 & she married a brother that was a 2 yrs older than her ….

My soon to be EX Husband was very very abusive and really I didn’t talk about it but it got out … I have a son , I left I couldn’t take the abuse any longer it was 24/7 like he didn’t sleep

I’ve struggled with anxiety and I have PTSD from what he has done to me … I left 2 yrs ago

My cousin was married to me soon to be ex brother and took there side told people i was lying and made me out to be crazy

Now it’s 2 yrs later and her husband had a affair on her and they are making her out to be crazy and I really do feel bad for her

There just mean people