Bartholin gland removal

Has anyone else had this done? I had mine removed july 16th so I'm 9 weeks out today. I still hurt, sex is still super painful, I know they cut a chunk out of me and sewed it closed but when will it be better? I'm surface healed its the inside parts that still hurt..

Also I took daily after surgery pictures so if anyone wants to see some hella bruises let me know lol so basically they took a circle chunk out of me and then closed it. Somehow in the closing or healing process a little tunnel formed. So I have a really weird hole thing now, my dr said she'll fix it after I have a baby and it rips 🤷‍♀️ but I'm sooooo insecure about it. It's the one thing on my body I liked and now it's deformed 🤦‍♀️

I have extreme insecurities now because it's not what it was and looks different. My husband has assured me everything is fine but we women feel different than men. I'm a 3 times a day girl and hes the same way but I'm sooooooo sore after sex now and that's me on top and being super slow and lubed up but omg it still incredibly painful