I just got congratulated on my pregnancy today.

Apparently I am not hiding my pregnancy as well as I thought I was.

It was the first night out without our son since he was born over 2 years ago, and I was feeling like I looked pretty and I thought I hid my bump pretty well.

(We haven’t told anyone yet and are waiting until 12 weeks. I had a chemical pregnancy in July, so I’m not comfortable sharing yet.)

She said “Congratulations! When are you due?”

I was so thrown that I just said thank you and we’re not telling anyone yet, and she apologized, but I felt so self conscious for the rest of the night.

To be clear, I am not mad at her at all.

But, now I want to just hide until we announce in a few weeks 😭 but I have family functions I have to attend.

This is my second child, third pregnancy, and I know showing earlier is pretty normal, plus I am not the smallest person, but I have never been so aware of my size in my life. I cannot wait to be past 12 weeks and share with everyone.

Just wanted to share with you all, because I have no one else to talk to aside from my husband, figured some of you might be in the same boat. Thanks for the vent.