So I was just on tinder you know minding my business and this random guy from like two months ago wrote me a message and he sounded really weird like he was saying a lot of really random weird stuff and then out of nowhere he said that I was desperate for attention but I just thought like he literally wrote me after like two months saying that and then when I kind of called him out that he might have a mental issue & hopefully he got some help or something like that I probably for his fragile male ego 🤣🤣 and I wasn’t going to unmatched him because I did want him to see the message and then because I’m black he called me a N*gger and I don’t really know why because it didn’t really hurt my feelings but I just wonder like do some white people people today really feel that that word has as much potency as it used to compared to now. Because I’ve been called a n*gger before and I wasn’t offended then and yeah he just called me that and I wasn’t offended now! What do you think ?