My husband didn’t wish me a happy birthday

I barely had received a happy birthday from my husband. We went on with the day for hours before he said anything. He’s never made birthdays special but this one stung because I had been talking about it being my 30th and how excited I was. I’m huge into birthdays.

He didn’t get me a card, we didn’t go do anything, and he didn’t even make it a deal to our daughter. Maybe I’m being dramatic. I’ve talked to him about this and he just makes me feel selfish for wanting a special day…

It’s almost to the point where if he doesn’t start putting more effort into things (like daily life it just feels like we are roommates)- I will feel like I need to leave. He doesn’t call me beautiful, make me feel special, and he blows off everything I do for him. I do so much for this man and always have for 6 years. I’m tired of wondering if it would be better with someone who gave the same effort that I do.

Anyways has anyone felt this way? I could really use some advice