So after this up coming appointment I'm deciding on go on birth control since I'm not having any luck with being able to conceive and infertility treatment it's way out of our budget after almost 9yrs gonna throw in the towel n hubby n i are looking into adopting ik each state is different but would love to get any tips and if you can add me where we can talk n have your help during this journey for when it happens still got a lots since class doesn't start till 1/11/22 anything will help also we have an 8 yr old soon to be 9 in feb we have a 2/2 bedroom not sure if any sex would work with my sister please no bashing or rude negative comments

Also how does you kids or adoption kids feel I dont want my daughter to feel out of place whi h most kids can be a bit mean and throwing stuff in each other face how their not fully related just want to avoid the conflict