Sorry in advance if it seems like I’m all over the place.

I’m a single mom and I always wanted to move to Florida, but was holding it off for a couple of years since I had a baby and wanted to make sure my son and I will be good financially especially since I’m a single parent. My friend and I made it known we got more than “friends” feelings for each other about a year ago (we been friends for about 2 years ago) he wants to be in a relationship, but I’m having my doubts. He don’t want to move, however 2 of his cousins are moving in with him. One of his soon to be roommates haven’t moved in yet (nor helping with bills) but he be there all day and invited a female over for a night cap. I came over that night as well and his cousin and the girl started being intimate. I understand they are going to be having sex in there, but I think it’s very disrespectful to have sex and y’all have the radio up and we have the tv up loud and we still hear y’all. It’s a common courtesy thing. So I told my friend I’m not going to be coming over like that because it just made me uncomfortable plus made be look at how it’s going to until he or they move out. Right now he legit spends all his time with them. When they move in when he’s going to have time for me? He offered to help me move closer to him (we stay and hour apart) , but I told him no because I don’t know if that’s the move I want to make. I always told him I don’t think he prioritize me and he always be like he do, but I don’t understand why I always feel like I’m getting placed on hold for your friends/cousins you see everyday. I can see if we always around each other and you want to spend some time with the guys, but that’s not the case. I feel like if that’s a problem now it’s going to be a problem if we get in a relationship and a problem if we get married. I already said he prioritize the guys more than he do me multiple times and nothing really changed.

Should I just do what I really want to do before he even came in the picture and moved to Florida or should I give it a try and move closer to him. Or should I do something else?