Is it a women thing??

Question

Me and my partner have being together 5 years and have two children and in the last 9 months she’s had such a hard sex drive begging me to get her pregnant while having sex, 
When we are not having sex she does not want anymore children. 
Is this normal 
Ps: she is on contraception by her own choice.

Answer

I’ve heard that some women have a pregnancy kink without necessarily wanting to become pregnant. It’s more to do with the idea of it in the moment. Essentially she’s begging for you to come inside her.

Answer

If she’s begging you to get her pregnant, then why is she using contraceptives, kind of pointless to be on birth control if you’re trying to get pregnant. Your sex drive can vary with age, obviously you’re having it more frequently, your sex drive increases, hormonal changes, obviously if you’re watching porn, you’re going to be stimulated visually, it stimulates the organs the blood flow, but if you just had a baby, your body goes through changes, like when you’re pregnant, each trimester is different, sometimes you’re dry as a desert, and you want nothing, sometimes your sex drive is high and you want at night and day, but everyone sex drive ebbs and flows, and obviously life has a lot to do with that as well, if you are stressed and exhausted and tired and your husband‘s not helping at home and you’ve got two kids, the last thing you want is sex, because you’re exhausted and the relationship isn’t working and anxiety depression medication side effects, a lot of things go into the reasoning why you don’t have a sex drive at some point. Obviously she needs to stop taking birth control if she wants to get pregnant, but if you don’t want to get pregnant then use condoms, be preventative, maybe she doesn’t really want a baby, maybe she just wants the closeness and the emotional connection with you by being close or cuddling or kissing or making out or holding hands or spooning etc. maybe that’s what she’s actually wanting not the actual penetration, or some people just want clitoral stimulation, but the more frequently you do it, obviously increases the blood flow, it increases the desire to want to do it, when you haven’t had sex in two years, you’re going through a dry spell for six months, it’s kind of obvious why you’re not consciously feeling that way because you’re not actively involved. Sometimes you need to relieve some stress, sometimes it’s an escape from reality, sometimes it helps you sleep, everyone has their reasons why, sometimes at the end of the day usually for women, that’s when we would rather have sex because once everything done kitchen is clean the kids are in bed etc. then your head is clear to have sex and continue on and relax and go to bed. But for women we are usually task oriented and everything needs to be checked off our list otherwise we’re up worrying about what we forgot to do, and of course your heads not gonna be in it because you’re concerned about everything you forgot to do we’re trying to figure out what you forgot to do. Sexes mind body and soul, it’s not just the act itself of penetration, but if you’re Elsewhere with your mind, your emotions, you don’t feel that connection with your partner, sometimes it’s just sucks, but maybe you need to have a conversation with your partner and find out what is going on. And just be grateful when she wants it, and go about your day when she doesn’t. Or maybe she just wants to cuddle, or sometimes you just wanna roll over and go to sleep, you don’t want to cuddle and don’t wanna be touched, everybody is entitled to their own feelings and how they are feeling depending how their day is or you guys had a fight or whatever it may be. Just take it with a grain of salt and don’t take offense to it obviously that she’s rejecting you or anything like that or doesn’t find you desirable, and just go with the flow.￼￼￼￼

Is it a women thing??

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