What’s your thoughts ????

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Do y’all think it’s a red flag if your boyfriend follows all of his exes or women he used to fuck on social media and still watches their stories and like their pictures? I think it’s a red flag but i don’t wanna bring it up yet cause i don’t wanna make it seem like I’m mad for no reason.

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I mean, I wouldn’t consider it a red flag. Some people ended things on good terms and might consider themselves acquaintances and would be friendly in passing. I personally have quite a few people on my social media that I would consider to be that kind of person in my life.
If he’s actively engaging with them and trying to set up meetings or whatnot that wouldn’t sit well with me, but just being “friends” with someone on social media and being cordial or friendly back and forth is not something I’d consider a red flag at all.

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No. I would consider him checking to see who I followed a red flag though.

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Ehh social media don’t mean nothing to people and other people it does. Personally i don’t have any of my exes cause once we’re done i don’t need to watch your story and i don’t care about what you’re doing and same thing with friendships . I get where you’re coming from tho cause it’s like do you still care for them or something? Most girls feel hype that their ex still watches their story too cause it’s a sign they might swipe up one day but honestly don’t think to deep of it because it’s probably nothin unless he’s known for cheating .

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Not really. Social media really doesn’t even mean anything. If I were to break up with someone my first thought wouldn’t be omg I gotta go unfollow and Blair them! No that’s ridiculous. People give way too much power to social media and make it matter so much. If you have other reasons as well as to worry about cheating then leave the relationship but to ask him to unfollow them is absurd.

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Not a red flag but I wouldn't be with someone If i knew they had all their exes and shit on social media still.

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I mean i hope my exes and old hook ups aren’t secretly watching my stuff… I would find it weird if they did.

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No

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no. i’m friends with all my eyes on social media. social media means nothing

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