Okay so I'm 20 and I lost my virginity when I was 17. To this day I can't really say that I have had an orgasm or "came" before. I say this because I never really had an experience where I felt like I was having one. Don't get me wrong, the sex was great but I feel as though something is wrong with me since I can't really tell whether I have had one or even when I am having one. Any help?