Advice

My boyfriend well I guess ex now doesn’t love me or that’s how he’s been acting. We live with his mother and she’s gotten in his head. He’s the biggest mama boy and whatever she says is gospel truth. We ended up breaking up over nonesense and now he doesn’t want to be a family any more and she’s lawyered up fast for him for visitation/legitimization/custody. He’s shared every thing I’ve said, text and even my diary I sent him to HER. I feel so hurt and betrayed I don’t know what to do. We had a great relationship until moving in. She’s been talking about me to him the entire time and driving a wedge. He had never defended me to her and they both call me ungrateful bc I don’t say thank you for every little thing yet I have never got one thank you for anything. Everything I do is minimized.

I needed him the most and he deciders to ignore and avoid me while we were dating. Knowing I had ppd, full time college, a 6yo, newborn, work etc and he chooses to hide out 10-12hrs daily to avoid being with me.

I’ve tried to work thing out but he says he finally has peace now that we are broke up when in reality he just wants to make his responsibility be only our son and let his mother do the bulk. I’m so hurt and embarrassed. He’s younger and so immature and everyone gives him a pass bc “it’s his first relationship” his mother was SO DEEP in our relationship she was reading EVERYTHING. I wish he would open his eyes but I’m done pleading. Our relationship was great until I moved in here and I regret it so much, he catered to my every need, listened, hugged me all the time and now he won’t even touch my hand