Boyfriend doesn't like sex

Jessie
My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years now, and we have had sex pretty much since the 3 month mark. Here lately he has completely stopped and he won't even touch me. He told me last night that he doesn't even like sex or want to have it. Should I be worried? I asked him what would happen when we decided to have kids and he said that then it would be different because he wouldn't be doing it for pleasure. I don't know what to think. Is it me?
346 views • 0 upvotes • 13 comments

COMMENT (13)

Me

Posted at
Maybe he's asexual and at first he forced himself because he didn't want to be different?

A.

Posted at
Sounds like he may be asexual 

A.

A. • Dec 12, 2015
That's okay! Maybe do some Google research on asexuality and how other couples deal with it. It would help you feel a lot better about the situation.

Je

Jessie • Dec 11, 2015
*understand

Je

Jessie • Dec 11, 2015
You made it so much easier to undertake. Thank you.

An

Posted at
That is definitely weird behaviour. He might be asexual as many people here mentioned, but I personally wouldn't want to be with a person like that. He has different ideas about life than you, and later you might find living with him very unsatisfying 

Kr

Posted at
To be honest I wouldn't want to be with someone who wouldn't want to share that bond you have when you do it. But he might be having mentally or even physically wrong with the thought of it. Defiantly talk to him to see what it is he doesn't like. 

Kr

Kristen • Dec 11, 2015
Sit down and tAlk to him

Je

Jessie • Dec 11, 2015
I don't want to be that person that breaks it off over sex, but at the same time I don't want to live the rest of my life without the intimacy in the relationship. It almost feels like we are just friends that kiss.

Su

Posted at
My boyfriend is the same its very little we have sex 

Ma

Posted at
He could be cheating on you and if he's truly asexual why is he in relationship though 🙁

s

Posted at
Thats wierd .. If its a sudden change in behaviour its abit odd!