Period 10 days late ..

So the last time I had sex was on my daughters first birthday ( September21 ) & im not 10 days late ! I haven’t tested yet cause Ik once I find out that’s when I start getting sick & I really don’t want anyone to know If I am ! Im not gonna say I’m scared , cause I’m not I have 4 other kids ! I just don’t wanna hear all the bullshit that’s gonna come with being pregnant again ! No it was not intentional , it was 4 days BEFORE my period ( September 25 ) & I ovulate whenever my body wants ( literally never the same time as the month before ) so I didn’t think to check at the time ! We live in 2 different states currently & Ik he’s gonna react badly cause of the distance ! Just needed to vent & hear whatever y’all have to say ! Thanks in advance !