Cookware

Soooo, I didn’t know you’re not supposed to use hard utensils on coated cookware. I’ve been using Circulon Pans from Costco, which the website says it’s a non toxic coating. and these pans have some scratches in them (I’ve been using them for a while now/few years…) Should I completely toss and start over with a new set of pans or keep using them? Any suggestions on brands? Edit: Do you think this use has been harmful to me or baby with toxins, etc?