Husband problems…please help

My husband is not the most emotional person..

He thinks depression is a joke and that the person can change it..

Well today we were watching a show where a woman was going through postpartum depression..and I openly said” ppd is no joke” and my husband very blankly said “tough shit.” And my replay was” what it I get ppd would you say that then.” He literally said maybe

You guys we’ve been trying to having a baby for 5 years!!! Went through IUI and everything… and it just came to me that I don’t know if I want to have a baby with him anymore…this isn’t the first comment he said about this either..

he’s also is the type that gets upset when I cry..

Advice please…