This is my second child. I am 11w3d along. I want to wait to find out what we are having. I want to have the doc write it on paper and have my cake lady dye the cake accordingly. And have a gender reveal party! This is my fiance's first baby. He is really anxious and wants to know first thing. He says he can wait but I feel like it means a lot to him. Is it wrong of me for making him wait?