In just so freaking annoyed at my husband! I love him, I know he means well, and he is sorta trying.... At least he says he is. But I don't see anything. He is the messiest man on earth! We were in the military being together so he was sorta forced to keep things clean but now that we're both out his true colors are showing. He destroys the kitchen, has a mountain of crap on his side of the bed, and leaves stuff out all the time. I talk to him nicely all the time and ask him to please clean up and put things away and he says he will but never gets around to it! It's to the point were I'm not even nice about it anymore. And I shouldn't have to be. He is a grown man, a freaking adult! We have a four year old and its setting an awful example for him.