Husband out at bars

My husband has been really stressed at work recently. Today he texted me after he got off and asked if it was OK if he got "a drink" with a coworker. I said it was fine. We texted a bit after, and then he went radio silent. I got worried, and eventually called around 1 am to see what was going on. Asked when he planned to come home. He got immediately pissed that I didn't trust him and that I was calling. He eventually came home and we got into a big fight. He says its not his fault I was up late (worried about where he was), and that he did absolutely nothing wrong. I feel like it is not unreasonable to want to check in at 1 am after hours of no communication. Am I that unreasonable?