He asked for a divorce

So a bit of a back story. My husband and I are both in our mid 30’s. He’s been married twice before. Very short lived marriages after exes both cheated and he immediately asked for a divorce. He’s in the military so we live far away from family. We have a 15 month old and I’m 6.5 months pregnant with baby number 2. I work full time as well in the ER so I don’t have a traditional 9-5 schedule and end up working mid shifts, night shifts and weekends A LOT. During those times he takes care of our toddler on his own and he is EXCELLENT with her. They have an amazing relationship because he spends so much one on one time with her while I’m working.

Lately we’ve been bickering quite a bit. Over silly things. Nothing meaningful. No cheating or money issues but it’s been taking a toll on our relationship.

Well last night we put the baby to bed, made dinner together and had an great evening together. We sat and watched our favorite show together and folded our laundry together (boring adult parent stuff). Well, show over and we both decide to head upstairs for bed and I start collecting my folded laundry to head upstairs and I asked him to do the same. We were literally on our way upstairs (to our bedroom). And he refused. He said no I’ll do it tomorrow. I said please do it now, the baby will destroy all of it when she comes down the next morning. And he’s like well I’m put it up and away from her. I’m like that’s an extra step. Just take it with you, you’re headed that way anyway. And he’s like nope. Literally the dumbest thing to argue about. But I didn’t understand why he wouldn’t do it, so I was admittedly annoyed, pouted, put my clothes away and grabbed my pjs to sleep in the spare bedroom. Very childish I know. Well after I got in bed he sent me this text.

I didn’t reply. I didn’t apologize. I know financially I’ll be okay. But I love this man. I don’t want a divorce. My daughter deserves to have her father. And so does this unborn baby.

Was I wrong ? Was he wrong? Does it even matter? Advice please…