So I have a friend she's my bestfriend and she just had a baby. It was totally unexpected and really poor judgment on her part but whatever. Anyways her baby is like a month old and she has already taken her with her out of town like 3 times, she goes out on weekends which I mean I guess I don't see an issue with occasionally going out but every weekend? I know she's on maternity leave and so she's not working and has nothing to really do but come on.  Idk I just imagine being such a different parent (I mean I imagine actually being married to the person I have children with but hey..) Im not saying she is a bad mom, she's caring and loving but I feel like she's too self involved.  I mean who takes their 2 week old 2 hours out of the city. She just has the most poor decision making abilities ever (hence her entire situation I assume). I know it's not really my business but it's hard to just sit back and watch someone screw up so badly constantly