Don't have oral sex if you are not comfortable

Don't feel pressure to have oral sex

I want to make sure women are heard

These are things women have said they felt: They felt pressured to have oral sex, When doing oral sex they felt disgusted did not want to do it did not like the smell, taste, balls, anus not wanting to do that.

So in relationships it's healthy to have hard No's to say absolutely not.

It's okay to protect yourself.

If a man ever takes out his penis or takes out a condom before you are ready it's okay to walk away. If he genuine cares about you he will understand.

A story there was a couple and she was young wanted to wait to have sex but on there six month date he took out a flavored condom she said no thanks next date he took out his penis and put on the condom told her it was a flavored condom and pushed her head down to taste then he said he didn't feel anything removed the condom and asked her to perform oral sex. Later she cried all night. Next time on a date at a public place he pulled out his penis said she turned him on aroused him she had to take care of his problem she gave him oral sex while crying. She didn't feel comfortable having public sex didn't feel comfortable doing oral sex at all actually was disgusted wanted to throw up was repulsed. Next date at a movie theatre he asked for head and hand job she said no and at that point he wanted to pressure her to have sex and it had gone too far she spoke up for herself and said no she left.

But there are people who like having sex in public places and if that is something that disgust you say no

Don't do things you aren't comfortable with