Slut???

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I'm 20 years old and I feel like I'm just living my life 
Had sex w/12 guys and I feel no need to want to commit and I've just been having fun and enjoying my 20s but does having one night stands or a fuck buddy make me a bad person???

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If u have a guilty conscious and have to ask this as a grown woman ... maybe u should slow down.

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The question is also how would you feel if the tables were turned and you were just used for sex?

I would hope you would have a problem with it.  Would value you body, soul, and you period

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I think as long as your safe and happy then who cares what anyone else thinks?! I met my hubby at 19 and we've been together ever since (I'm nearly 26 now) but prior to him I casually slept with plenty of people (and didn't feel great about it emotionally) but I can honestly say now that I'm where I'm meant to be and very happy and that could have been very different if I didn't do what I did. Be you, be safe and enjoy life. The rest will take care of itself x

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When I was 19 I slept with sooo many guys, but I was just exploring and being happy, enjoying my independence and lack of commitment, I didn't need none! 
Right now I feel I have explored enough and I think through things deeper, measure consequences better, take more care of my self as a person and value each person that comes along.
Having sex is a responsibility with your own, but it's not stated how many people you should sleep with or what makes you a slut. 
Right now I'm a happy experienced, independent woman, not ashamed of my past or processes that I had to go through in order to become the wonderful person and partner I am.
Hope this helps you!!

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On my opinion, I think having so many sex partners is gross. I couldn't have that many men inside of my body. Sex is a very intimate and serious connection. I don't think it should be shared and passed around like weed. To each their own I guess.

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As long as your having safe sex and no one is getting hurt (I.e: everyone is single) then have 100 sex partners if you want who cares. Sex is great so enjoy it! Just be safe

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It doesn't make you a bad person but please protect yourself. You don't get easily attached when I think the majority of women do when they have sex with someone. Use condoms, some form of BC, and maybe carry a taser/pepper spray if you have one night stands and go to random guys homes, if that is the case please be careful and maybe text a friend letting them know where you are.

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Seriously? No.

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No girl shut up

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Listen you are free to do what ever you want. Is your body, your mind and your feeling. If you havent found the "correct" person for a serious relationship what wrong with having fun whilst searching for it. But just be carefull, because when start finding the right person, youll need to slowly slow down, or hill think hes just one more.
Know what i mean?
But girls its your life you have the right to do what ever you want! 🙌🏽 and enjoy it in your way.
P.S Hope this helped; if you need anything else... Just say it!

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