How was your bleeding with a chemical?

My period was due last thurs Oct 7th and I was getting vfl then 1 slightly darker and now the lines are almost not existent. I started having sore boob, slight nausea and as soon as i started feeling symptoms, it was as quick as they were gone.. I started cramping (weird cramps, like period cramps but different) and spotting brown and dark red Monday, Tuesday passed 2 big clots and spotted the rest of the day and here I am Wednesday still spotting. A lot of it is black and looks like coffee grounds and then dark red. Not enough for a pad really. With my last pregnancy I did have a subchorionic hemorrhage around this time but my lines kept getting darker and I went to the hospital and everything resolved with time on its own. I had a normal pregnancy. I'm assuming this time IS just a chemical bc what lines were there are basically gone. I'm going to make a appt but I'm just REALLY trying to wait this week and see if my flow will turn into a period and wanted to see if for others did it take awhile? Thanks in advance for your help and my heart goes out to you if you have experienced a chemical or any child loss at any stage.. I've been really sad but I trust God and his plan, so I'm hanging in there. It's just frustrating because the close people I did tell (husband, sis, grama) really didn't understand the whole concept of a chemical pregnancy so to hear "I really thought you were pregnant" is heartbreaking. I know my body and to know that there could have been..what could have been.. really is just a gut wrenching feeling. I think for here on out I won't be testing so early and I will just wait until my period is a complete 7 days late because this ultimately has been devastating. If anyone feels like this, I understand and I know exactly how you feel. 💞