I am in a pickle and I need some honest opinions. So my boyfriend and I have been with each other for quite some time now he is 6 years older than me. I'm pretty mature for my age. I'm 20 and he is 26 and we both still live at home with our families. He has a decent job but he definitely is underpaid and so not appreciated for the vigorous amount of work he does from his boss. So acouple weeks ago his car flipped and thank god he is ok. But we are currently on the scope for a new car and at 26 years old he has absolutely no savings and horrible ass credit and couldn't get approved for jack shit. So I lensed him $3,000 so he could get a basic car and of course he is going to pay me off. But I just lost feelings for him. Like I'm 20 and I have more to show for myself than him. He just has no motivation to get his life together even though I have given him many tools to start saving and all. He said that what is going on is a huge slap in his face so he's gonna do his absolut best to get himself on track. I love him and of course care for him but I just don't know if I want to stick around with somebody who can't even take care of themselves. Thoughts...:/