I’m almost 38 weeks with our little girl, my partner and I had our daughters name picked out for the last few months. We had finally decided to tell our family at our baby shower yesterday. My partners best friend, best friends partner and kids weren’t able to make it to the event but we had dinner together instead. We tell them we are naming our daughter Riley, they make a few remarks about it being a boys name. I push these comments to the side. After we had finished dinner, his best friend says to my partner, “you dirty man, you named your daughter after a pornstar” my partner ask who, he replied with “Riley Reid, you know who I’m taking about”. My partner says nothing. I was sitting away from them at this point and just about started crying, I couldn’t believe someone would say something like that about a baby, my infant child. I am so hurt, I don’t feel the same towards the name, which I loved, I have always wanted to name my daughter Riley and now it just makes me want to cry. I know I’m probably being over the top and sensitive, I just can’t believe my partner let someone speak about our daughter like that.