Update on whether I was the toxic one..

So I saw him today. I went over and we talked about how I’m always asking the same questions after I know the answer and how we start arguing. I told him I just wanted reassurance. He asked if I was insecure. I said no and moved on. Well later on I told him that when he asked if I’m insecure, that im actually insecure. He asked if I knew what kind of insecure he meant and I said yes. I continued and said that yeah that I need reassurance on everything. Well he said that he didn’t like that and found that annoying as I always know the answer and he doesn’t like repeating himself. I told him that he can let me off gently like “hi love, I already said — don’t worry everything will be okay.” He said that he has tired since the beginning and I always still ask again.

If I’m being honest, this just made me realize that he might not be the one for me. As he might not have the patience to deal with me. We have 4 years together and idk. I think it’s time to let go for the sake of getting hurt ... Would y’all let go of someone over this...