How do you find the right guy?

I am 19, turning 20 on the 18th December and I am still a virgin. I don't go out much and I don't plan on doing so either. But I really want a boyfriend and I really want sex. It has only been the past month or so that I have finally decided that I am ready for sex after putting it off for so long. I really want to find someone but I don't want a fling which seems to be all that guys want nowadays. I need some help and advice! Pleaseee xxx