I'm just needing to vent for a minute...hubs and I have a 9 and 4 year old and a 13 week old, all boys...He's been home on parental leave to "help" and the older have been home more then in school due to illness or covid exposure and I'm just frustrated... I need my house back and quiet 😂 I know they mean well but I am about to blow 🥴stop waking up the baby, no a shower for me or a meal isn't self care or a "break" ,yes I want you to pick him up no its not a test...love them all dearly but I'm stressed while blessed 😂 never had help with the older boys(hubs worked and no family around) so I'm used to doing it all and I prefer it that way 🥴