How soon should you meet your SO's friends when dating?

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Curious how soon you met your SO's friends. I'm in a situation where he has a group of guy friends and a separate group of female friends that he goes out partying with, and he never introduced me to either. We dated for seven months and going on the second month of being in a official relationship. I do feel uneasy that I haven't met his friends. I did bring up casually that it would be fun to go ice-skating with friends together, and he was excited about the idea and said he would bring his female friend group along so I can meet them. But I just found out that he's hanging out with his friends after work at night, but he didn't invite me to meet them. Not that he has to tomorrow, but it's just that it made me feel uneasy knowing that it could be with his female friends, and told me that he will be "lacking of replying" to my messages. He's never told me that before

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If you havent been introduced to people he frequents after 3 months of official dating 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀
     Its still a new relationship but your intuition may be telling u something. Either he hiding something or not tht serious about u yet.

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I think i met my SOs friends about a month or 2 after dating and his roommate/friend before we were even officially dating. Not saying your guy is trying to hide his friends from you but if that's the gut feeling you're getting then that's definitely a red flag. Maybe you can calmly explain to him that you understand everyone is busy and has their own schedules but at this point it's making you nervous/anxious that you haven't met even a single person he's friends with. How he reacts to you explaining it that way should give you all the explanation/answers you need to either keep being patient or to take it as a sign to leave.

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I met one of his friends about a month after becoming official. I haven’t “met” his other friends because they’re all online friends, but I have talked to most of them. 
As for your worry about him saying he won’t respond when he’s with his friends, that’s totally normal. He’s spending time with his friends, they deserve his time.

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If have expected to have met them by now. 
Id see this as a red flag tbh

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It’s only been two months, so give it a few more if everything else seems okay. But yes, this is a red flag of how he prioritizes the relationship. We met eachothers parents only a few months in and he lived with roommates so I met and hung out with them quickly. But we were all about eachother so didn’t make an effort to go out much. The red flag is that he’s going out without you and no invite

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We started dating in a July and I first met any of his friends new years eve after that. I wasn't ever really worried about meeting his friends tbh. I met his family right away tho

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Whenever the opportunity was there honestly. And sometimes I did things on my own and sometimes he did things on his own, but when we had the opportunity we met up with each others friends.
How old are you two?
I remember it being very intimidating when we were younger because their opinions on one could actually have an effect on the succes of our relationship.. 😂
Because you just wanna fit in with your group and you don't wanna ruin the dynamic and if someone in the group doesn't like that new person the dynamic is ruined.
- But as you get older you should care less.

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Yeah I think by now he should have introduced you to his friends. Something is telling you it's not right, I think it's women's intuition. Are you sure he's told them you were dating.

How soon should you meet your SO's friends when dating?

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