I’ve been talking to the same guy for 2 years we’ve been dating for the last 8 months. He’s 25 and has a decent paying job working in a factory. I’m 21 and I work as am exotic dancer. Our whole time we’ve been together money hasn’t really been an issue for either of us we’ve been blessed and everything’s been fine. I have my own apartment and my own car and he’s always has had his own things too until recently he moved into his dads house which is fine. But him and his dad started having issues so long story short he’s been trying to find a new apartment but hasn’t had any luck so he’s asking me if he can stay with me for a little until he can get another apartment he also has a dog who I love but I am allergic to dogs so having a dog in my house constantly isn’t the best thing for me and I personally just don’t like animals in the house. I let him come over here and there because I miss him but having him living here I’m not too sure about that. Also my boyfriend is not the best with money management and has been down with his money struggling to pay all his bills and debts and everything so he has been asking me to borrow money which so far he has paid it all back which I have no problem helping but it’s getting annoying when you keep getting into these situations just because you can’t budget or Save your money. He’s also negative and always complains about his situation but never wants to do anything to change or fix it. I’m just having so many conflicting emotions because people

Go through hard times and need someone and I have no problem being there but at the same time you’ve created a lot of your own problems so you need to deal with them. Should I say something about how I’m feeling because I’m starting to resent him and Idk what to do. Ik this long af but ya girl

Going through it rn