Relationships with bar owner?

Is there anybody here who is in a relationship with a bar owner? What is your relationship like if yes? I find this quite difficult as it leads to trust issues for me. He's around a lot of women. Works many late nights. I trust him for the most part but sometimes I wish he had another job. We don't live together. Last night he stayed in the pub drinking with friends until 5am. He told me this but it kinda irked me because I hope its not a sign of how things could be. We spoke about living together and maybe baby in the future. If he strolled in the door to me at that hour frequently I'd hate it if I was home alone. Any similar experiences? He's a good guy for the most part. Maybe slow to commit. We've been together 1.5 years. This is only coming to light for me now as the bar was closed most of the first year due to covid. Its like he is married to the bar! I barely see him because of it.