What do I do about my husband?

I prefer gentle parenting, my husband does not. (Though I will admit that it could be very challenging, especially with my son)

My 3 year old son is a very sensitive and passionate little guy. He’s very strong willed. My husband has a hard time dealing with him in a gentle, positive yet still disciplined way.

Any time I say something, my husband & I start arguing, well most times. We never agree on our parenting styles.

Our relationship already needs lots of work & our parenting just adds to it.

I don’t like the way my husband treats our son but at the same time, I cannot change it. When I try, it usually leads to a full blown yelling argument.

What do I do. Parenting is hard. Marriage is hard. I feel so stressed.