Am I just the one that’s weird?

So growing up I was taught to know my limit with alcohol. My parents had me drink at home once they heard I was drinking just so I would know at what point/drink I would be drunk so I could avoid being taken advantage of or hurt. I’ve kept this kind of reasoning when I was of age and drank at bars/parties/whatever. I will get drunk but then back off so I don’t go overboard. If there aren’t any sober friends I won’t get drunk at all because I feel like someone needs to be relatively sober to help. Well my husband does not feel the same way. We’ve been together for 5 years and I HATE when he drinks. It has caused problems before between us because when we would go out together I wouldn’t get drunk with him. When he drinks he gets hammered. Fast forward to today. We have a toddler and were at a party a few blocks away. After about 4 hours of being there my husband is pretty drunk. It’s 8pm so I tell him I’m leaving and taking our girl home. He said he wants to stay, after a little argument I just go and take my kid home to take care of her told him to call me to have me pick him up.

An hour later he comes stumbling through the door. This man can barely stand up, I had to help him take his costume off and he fell going up the stairs. I’m pissed that he walked home in the dark this drunk and that he is continuing to get that drunk when we have a kid. Am I wrong and just a party pooper?